...to say hello.
...to say goodbye.
...to recognize the time for each.
...to cherish the time in between.
...to let go of the past.
...to have a future.
...to be in the now.
...to live.
...to learn.
...to look.
...to leap.
...to take a risk.
...to face your fears.
...to know that fear can be helpful.
...to know that times can be hard.
...to know the struggle is worth it.
...to hold on tight when you must.
...to fail but not be a failure.
...to be hurt but not broken.
...to pick yourself back up.
...to dust yourself off.
...to cry when the time comes.
...to then be ok.
...to be strong.
...to be beautiful.
...to be who you are.
...to be imperfect.
...to be proud.
...to give it when you need to.
...to take it when you have to.
...to get through it somehow.
...to follow through to the end.
...to not be through until you are done.
...to move on when you are.
...to make a change.
...to start again.
...to take that first step.
...to look someone in the eyes.
...to share a smile.
...to be a friend.
...to be befriended.
...to be ready for more if you find it.
...to find joy in someone else.
...to find peace in yourself.
...to let yourself be known.
...to let someone in.
...to let something happen.
...to let someone know.
...to let something grow.
...to see it.
...to feel it.
...to experience it.
...to touch.
...to be touched.
...to feel more than the touch.
...to be moved.
...to be passionate.
...to love.
...to wipe that aloof smile off your damn face if you can not, because you're wasting my time not to mention your own.
Get a dog.
Learn to knit.
Be alone.
Or make an effort
Do your part.
Meet me half way.
I'm the man sitting across the table from you now, and the night is no longer young.
It's up to you.
This post is about a specific woman I met a few years ago. She liked being pursued. In fact, for her, dating was more a game of validating her self worth than it was about the person she was with.
"I like being chased" she said.
I wanted to say "I like being treated like a living breathing and potentially loving human being rather than the greyhound to your rabbit."
Instead, I said that I understood - though honestly I did not.
"Another round for you two?" asked the waiter with a smile.
My gut told me to call it a night, but as I leaned towards my date, I said the four words that were the embodiment of everything I'd been thinking about this coy woman.
"It's up to you."
...back.
